03-20-2015, 03:20 PM
DM - she is at the Atrium (I think now called Brookdale) in San Jose, near Blossom Hill and Santa Teresa.
I am not sure the hoarding is just the Depression era thing - I think with her it was partly laziness and having a lot of storage space to put crap in meant she didn't have to throw it away. My brother and his wife are hoarder-ish too, and he still has stuff in her house, mainly papers from high school and old books. I told him to get what he wanted, and he oh so helpfully just took his old trophies from high school! Jackass. He has not done much of anything through all this.
I am not sure the hoarding is just the Depression era thing - I think with her it was partly laziness and having a lot of storage space to put crap in meant she didn't have to throw it away. My brother and his wife are hoarder-ish too, and he still has stuff in her house, mainly papers from high school and old books. I told him to get what he wanted, and he oh so helpfully just took his old trophies from high school! Jackass. He has not done much of anything through all this.
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